My family are just so annoying, and I've noticed recently how sexist they are. My Grandma is always saying things like, "You should be doing the cleaning because you'll have to go and do it for your husbands family" "Your brother doesn't need to be able to do housework because he's not moving out, he'll have a wife do it all for him."
ERGHH SO traditional YUCK
I'm all for traditions, but when it's sexist, or doesn't really go with modern life, ew ew ew ew, you will NEVER see me trying to follow them. The way my grandma talks I can tell she expects me to marry into a traditional family, probably a guy who still lives with his parents (YUCK) and be a traditional little housewife that does EVERYTHING and is there for her in laws every command. Oh but of course, this is a modern world so I'll have to juggle a career along with that. I love my grandma, but if she thinks that is my future, she better think again. No, no, no. This is how I plan my life to go...
I think I wanna get married after I finish Uni, but not straight away, probably once I get into my job. I'm hoping to be a scientist of some sort, but I mostly want to go into forensics. My wedding will be beautiful but not MASSIVE (Don't forget I don't like people). My husband will be someone well educated, he has to be someone who follows religion (i.e. prays 5 times a day, fasts, e.t.c.), but makes sure they have a balance in life. He'll be loving, funny and someone who can read me like a book. We won't be living with his parents, and we'll have a symmetrical family. (Sociology coming in here haaha) If my future husband thinks he can lie back while I cook and clean he can think twice.We'll have a big house in a safe and posh neighbourhood, and it will be perfect. I really want to live in America, but I know that probably won't happen, so I'll make sure the house is American style. We'll have a maid or too to keep it clean and looking it's best. I NEED A CAT. I don't really know about children, but I definitely want a daughter. I've been thinking either have an only child, or have like 10 hahaa. Yeah I dunno. However many I have, me and my husband will raise them to be happy, respectable and loving ♥
And that just about outlines my perfect life :)
